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Long Distance Parenting: How to Stay Connected When Your Child Lives Far Away
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Whatever the reason, being away from your kids can be hard, on everyone. When I told my son about the trip, his downturned mouth, drooping shoulders, and trembling chin brought a lump to my throat. I promise you, it breaks the ice. If time zones, work restrictions, or communication issues make it impossible to call, record a story instead.
And roll it out every time you go away. And taking the time to do it made me feel less guilty about abandoning my darling boy. More than one child? Find a book that matches your family setup, or make one for each of them. Why not go the whole hog and stick photographs of your faces on the characters?
What worked or is working for your families that live far away? This will be the first grandchild on both sides of the family.
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We want to have more kids, but don't take anything for granted. Weekly video chat calls. The grandparents can just watch the baby in the beginning, and then can graduate to interacting a bit more, and later, the grandparents can read stories over video chat. My own family and sibling has done some combination of these all successfully. I have children in my family who have developed a real sense of comfort and familiarity around family members whom they've only met once or twice in person through regular Facetime chats.
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It's really a godsend for that kind of thing. I grew up miles from one side of the family another location in the Midwest and more than 1, miles from the other side of the family New England. I'm actually closest to my family in New England because of the extended visits I had out there as a kid. Between the ages of 6 and 12, I spent at least a month in New England most summers.
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In the later years I would fly out with my sister as unaccompanied minors and then have my parents join us for the last week or so. Definitely skype, but it'll be years before kiddo gets it.
My daughter is 19 months and we live similarly far from family. Something that seems to be helping her remember people between visits is that I made her a book with pictures of all her family members in it, including pics of them interacting with her. We look at it together ALL the time, and sometimes when someone comes to visit who we haven't seen in a while, we get out the book while they're there to reinforce that this is the same person.
This is a very cheap and easy project, by the way. I used a template on Vistaprint, pictures from my phone and Facebook and got 2 backup copy! My kids lived miles away from my husband's family for the first 12 years of my oldest's life. Yet they were able to forge a very close relationship with my mother-in-law. We visited about once a year, and she would come to visit and stay with us for weeks 2 or 3 times a year. In between, they had long phone calls, and later FaceTime sessions, during which they would play and describe their play, while she joined in from afar.
She's a talented artist and writer, so she would often take the stories they'd told her and turn them into little books and illustrations they would look at frequently. Later they'd even build Lego and play chess together over FaceTime! A few years ago, we moved closer to that side of the family, and now my kids keep in touch with my parents in much the same way, plus they have had the kids stay with them for several weeks in the summer, flying as unaccompanied minors.
Video chat really is an amazing thing for keeping close contact going for kids. Keep a box of family snapshots handy. Our kid likes looking at pictures anyway, and going through them with her when she was a toddler got us into the habit of talking all the time about far-flung cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents, etc. Congratulations on your pregnancy! It's really kind of you to think about this. My sister lives on the direct opposite side of the world from me, and my brother lives a three hour flight away, andthey each have two kids.
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My family sounds about as close as yours. Here's how I've made a relationship with each of the children A lot, and on whatever schedule that works for my siblings. I'd rather have a ten minute call per week than a forty minute call per month, and it's easier for them. I asked this question about crafts and gifts I could include in my notes , and that's worked a treat. Also videos of them saying "Hi Aunt Punch! These are all on my refrigerator.
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